KEEP YOUR PHONE DOWN !

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Happy morning! 

I decided to write this blog after meeting a friend who was going through this , nowadays common , ” PHONE OBSESSON ” .

 It is a major yet neglected problem , especially among youth !

Do you remember the last time you greeted your parents – ” Good morning Mum and papa!  ” ?

I think this habit has long been forgotten. 

WHAT WE DO ACTUALLY  ?

 As soon as we wake up – ” Where’s my phone? “

Then 

Phone switched on! – look for the notifications! wow I Crossed 100 likes on my photo !! Great achievement! – this and that..! –

We don’t realize that so much of our precious time is being wasted early in the morning. –

Also ,  this destructive habit of checking the phone NOW & THEN and staying glued to screen leads to –

” LOW SELF ESTEEM ” & ” LOW LEVEL OF CONFIDENCE “

She looks so good  !  Look at me ?  I don’t look as good as her 😦

Oh my gosh ! Look at her girlfriend !

She’s so cute ! And mine.. 

You start comparing yourself to other people without realizing YOU ARE  UNIQUE . YOU HAVE DIFFERENT DREAMS . THERE IS NO BIG INSULT TO YOURSELF than COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS !

You forget about your own achievements and your abilities! 

Not DONE..!! 

” FEELING OF ISOLATION “

I don’t have much followers..! LOOK at her SHE or HE has thousands !

” M not that popular.. ” !

Instead of improving upon your VERBAL COMMUNICATION and focusing on personal development , you prefer to chat and send text messages. 

This deteriorates your chances of developing :

Good Personality Traits 

Improved Body Language

Better communication skills 

And then you Wonder  – ” why I could not clear that interview ? “

WHAT SHOULD I DO NOW  ?

Look out for the cause.  This habbit is just an effect of your wrong thinking pattern .. So once you make out –  WHAT’S ACTUALLY BOTHERING YOU ? You’re half there 😀

Get this thing straight into your mind –

 

” DON’T USE SOCIAL NETWORKING SITES TO IMPRESS PEOPLE BUT USE THEM TO IMPACT PEOPLE ! “

You cannot even make out what harm it is doing to  you and the DISASTROUS CONSEQUENCES IT will have !

 

You will never be judged by your looks ( although to some extent  , but only some) 

But by your Good Behaviour , a Strong Personality and your Achievements. 

No worries  ! It happens with almost every person using these sites.  Even I was obsessed at one time. But the moment I realized this is not a part of my DREAM , I made the necessary changes! 

Keep yourself away from the phone atleast 2 hours after you wake up & 2 hours before going to bed . 

It might take some . You don’t have to worry.. 

” YOU MAKE HABITS. 

   YOU MAKE THEM A PART OF YOUR     ROUTINE.

  HABITS MAKE YOU. “

 

Commit yourself to constant improvement !

All the Best! 

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